Friday, March 31, 2023

Steve & Ilene

Thanks to Ancestry.com, DNAngels, and matches from distant cousins, definitive answers came while I was in St. Louis. Going with the flow, we spent a day with Ilene (82), my paternal grandmother, who lives in St. Charles. We visited Steve (61), my biological father, who lives in a nursing facility in Jennings.

The kids and Ilene enjoyed City Museum, which is truly "weirdly wonderful" with its slides, tunnels, caves, collections, and sculptures.

Wednesday, March 29, 2023

The Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis

Seth and I loved our time at the Basilica. It's a unique blending of east and west. The kids lit candles and were mostly reverent ;) A tour guide shared interesting tidbits and captured the kids' attention.

St. Louis Aquarium

Trees are beginning to blossom in St. Louis, and we had a lovely day to be out and about. We enjoyed the hands-on activities at the St. Louis aquarium. We had a good laugh over a worker mishearing me and informing me that "Jellyfish aren't sad. They don't have brains."

Kit and Emerson (with dad's help) also took advantage of the nearby ropes course while Winnie and I watched.

Mid-East Qualifier

Congrats to 14 Green for all of their hard work in St. Louis. They had a lot of wins days two and three, ending up the winner of the emerald bracket. Kit and I enjoyed our time flying out, riding the train with fellow Ohioans, running through the rain to our hotel, working out in the well-equipped gym, and eating calzones at Sauce on the Side. 

The rest of the family drove to meet us on Sunday. They made it right on time to see the final game!

Drive-In Theater

Ms. Cara's class watched a film and ate snacks, drive-in theater style!

Tuesday, March 21, 2023

Weekend Roundup

More from the weekend: Winnie went to the dance at Hyatts with her friends. Kit got to sleep in. Seth set up the trampoline. We were able to get in a short hike at Shale Hollow.

Sunday, March 19, 2023

Surprise for Kenley

Kit arranged a surprise dinner out for Kenley's birthday, which takes place during spring break. We went to the Olive Garden and mall.

In Need of Coffee

First it was the iced coffee. Winnie requested I use the containers in her fridge to roll across her face to wake her. Now this ;)

Sunday Sledding

We awakened to snow, and Emerson and I headed over to Glenn Ross. We had the hill to ourselves! The snow was all melted by early afternoon.

Visiting the Bargers

It was great to catch up with our favorite 88-year-olds :) Jack and Pat insisted that we bring Tego with us. Jeff showed Emerson his trains, and Pat told us about growing up with an outhouse until she was 10.

Following our visit, we pulled through McDonald's. Not only did they give Tego his first "pup cup," they told us our bill for the kids' snacks
 was $0!

Friday, March 10, 2023

March Choir Concert

Grandma Jo joined us on Wednesday for dinner and the girls' choir concerts at Hyatts. The music was beautiful!

20 Years of Public Service

Recently hit a big milestone - 20 years of public service in Ohio! I've been reflecting...

The 20 Most Important Things I’ve Learned in 20 Years of Public Service

20. Make sure you believe in the mission of the agency.
19. Slow down and enjoy it all.
18. Try to hold everyone in high regard.
17. Ask for you what you want. The worse thing that can happen is that you receive a “no”.
16. A mentor taught me to “Never let ‘em see you sweat.” I’ve come to believe the real merit in this statement is to try not to get worked up about things – to not sweat in the first place.
15. Value diverse feedback.
14. There is always a way to make it better.
13. Thank people often for what they do.
12. Learn what you can from mentors while you can because they won’t be around forever.
11. Laugh at yourself when you mess up.
10. I can work in a lot of different roles to help impact positive change. The important thing is the personal energy I bring to those different roles.
9. Don’t forget to put family first.
8. Stay calm in crisis – you’ll manage it better & the truth is, it will pass.
7. Support colleagues in their growth and advancement.
6. Stay relevant by always learning and trying new things.
5. Change is part of the deal – might as well be comfortable with it.
4. The work you do + the way you treat people = reputation.
3. Care for those you work with – they are in many ways your family.
2. Breathe.
1. It’s not about me – it’s ALWAYS about the people we are serving. 

Meanwhile, Back at the Ranch...

Winnie, Emerson, and I kept busy at home while Seth and Kit were away. From nails and makeup, to playground excursions, and a trip to Grandma and Grandpa's, we enjoyed the time with each other.

Louisville Volleyball Tournament

Seth and Kit had fun at the Louisville volleyball tournament. They'll always remember the crazy lighting. They stayed with the Damhoffs and got to catch up with their family and see their property on their ATV.